Reading list

A must read to understand the science and biology behind nature’s predilection for diversity in sexual orientation, mating and relationship formats.

It’s always science first: a more detailed look at primates, especially bonobos, and what we can learn about the true nature of human connection and sexuality.

A beautiful collection of stories of non-monogamy and relationship creativity from a 40 year relationship coach who happens to also be one of the pioneer of polyamory in the US

A guide to a more peaceful life free of fear and jealousy - which happen to be the core tenants of polyamory. He explores critical concepts like impermanence, freedom and mutual aid which are anchors to non-monogamy.

Buddhism but make it Merican! A classic focusing on many key life realities like the inevitability of change and the importance of now.

A more practical look at what relationships can look like when they are not bound by cultural demands.